Brides & Grooms to be: if you’re knee-deep in wedding prep and looking for a fresh, fun way to celebrate your last hurrah before saying “I do,” let us introduce you to the concept of a Sten Do. Never heard of it? Don’t worry, we’re here to fill you in on this trending pre-wedding celebration.
So, What Exactly is a Sten Do?
A Sten Do (sometimes called a Hag Do) is a combined stag and hen party. It’s a joint celebration where both the bride and groom, along with all their friends, come together for one epic event. No more splitting up the party crew by gender, and no more trying to coordinate separate weekends. Everyone is invited to share in the fun together!
Why Choose a Sten Do?
- Inclusivity: Not everyone’s social circle divides neatly into the traditional “girls’ night” and “boys’ night.” A Sten Do lets you celebrate with your favorite people, regardless of gender. Whether it’s your sister, your best friend from work, or your college roommate, they can all be part of the festivities.
- Less Stress, More Fun: Planning two separate events can be a logistical nightmare—different dates, different venues, and twice the cost. With a Sten Do, you only need to organize one amazing event. That means less stress for you, and more energy to focus on having a blast.
- Double the Friends, Double the Vibe: Imagine combining the best of both worlds—girls’ night glam and boys’ night banter. You get the variety and energy of two parties in one, which means there’s something for everyone. Whether it’s a sophisticated dinner, a wild night out, or an adventurous day trip, the options are endless.
- Memories to Share: Instead of hearing second-hand stories about what the other group got up to, everyone is in on the fun. It’s all about making memories together, which makes the lead-up to your wedding day even more special.
How to Plan the Perfect Sten Do
Here are a few tips to make sure your Sten Do goes off without a hitch:
- Pick a Location That Suits Everyone: Choose a venue that has something for everyone—think a countryside retreat with space for outdoor activities and a cozy lodge for evening drinks, or a city break where you can explore by day and hit the town by night.
- Plan a Mix of Activities: Cater to the diverse group by planning a range of activities. From adrenaline-pumping adventures to laid-back spa sessions, the key is to keep everyone entertained.
- Set the Mood with a Theme: Whether it’s a casual beach party or a glam black-tie affair, a theme can tie the whole event together and make it even more memorable.
- Don’t Forget the Little Details: Make sure there are plenty of photo opportunities, personalised touches, and maybe even some fun games that get everyone involved.
Is a Sten Do Right for You?
If you and your partner share the same friends, or just love the idea of a joint celebration, then a Sten Do might be the perfect choice for you. It’s all about bringing everyone together for one unforgettable party before the big day. And let’s be honest—who wouldn’t want an excuse for an extra round of celebrations?
So, if you’re ready to break with tradition and throw a pre-wedding party that’s as unique as your love story, why not go for a Sten Do? At The River Mill, we’re also available for party hire. Imagine your Sten Do at your venue to tie the whole thing together! Let’s make your Sten Do one for the history books.
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Team River Mill x
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